Guys rarely go wrong when trying to figure out whether a lady is more than just a friend. They can tell whether you like him or not. It is in their nature to make out whether you are more than a friend or not! However, as a girl, trying to figure out whether he likes you as a friend can be more than a Herculean task. Probably, you have even sat down with your girlfriends trying to analyze what he said to you and whether that was among the accurate signs that he likes you. The good news is that there are some accurate signs that you can be on the lookout for that can be an indication of whether the dude likes you more than a friend.
Check his body language to know if he likes you more
Have you seen him cozying up to you or just leaning on you? Does he seem to always prefer to sit next to you? This could be an accurate sign that he likes you more than a friend. If you find that he leans towards you when you are facing him, this is an indication that he wants to be close to you. If he is always finding excuses to touch you or seem comfortable when you touch him, this is a sign that he likes you more than a friend. However, this doesn’t mean that he will need to caress you if he likes you more than a friend.
I am talking about him patting your shoulder during those funny moments or touching your knees when trying to draw your attention. This is a clear indication that he likes you more than a friend. If you want lo learn more about male body language click here
He steadily holds your fleeting glance
Ok, so this is where it all starts. The “hide and seek” of the eyes.
You know those odd yet heart skipping fleeting glances? Yup, it’s all in the eyes.
At first, it might be awkward when you both happen to catch each other, checking each other out even if it’s for a micro-millisecond.
That is just the initial stage of chemistry, once he wants you to know he likes you he won’t shy away from looking straight into your eyes and flash a cute smile letting you know he’s as excited to see you as you are to see him.
He will start holding your glance steadily because he likes what he is looking into and that you can start catching his expressions.
He will always deeply look into your eyes while making conversations with you.
One of the most clean signs he likes you more than a friend.
He will make random excuses to start a conversation
Does he ask you silly out of the context questions?
Like when you happen to cross each other’s path at a park, a grocery store, on the street, or at work. (I don’t know as long as you live on this planet, anywhere).
Does he randomly ask about the weather? Or “wow, what a coincidence! What are you doing here? (Well yeah. I don’t know. Why would people come to grocery stores?I had an appointment with the doctor here!) Or a simple question like “Hey! How are you doing?”
His questions might make you want to facepalm but trust me, girl he is trying his hardest to talk to the woman he finds cute.
Yup!
Men get as nervous talking to you as you get talking to them when it comes down to the question of romantic interests.
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If he is your no. 1 fan, he surely likes you more than a friend
Women have the tendency to post their everyday routines on whatever social media platforms they use. Sometimes, it attracts attention from your social media friends and you gain “reactions” from it. Sometimes, it just doesn’t. But whatever posts you have, be they interesting or not, there is one friend who is present to give you that “like” and yes, you guessed it, it’s him.
He is just really there to give you that thumbs-up even when your post is just for your tagged friends. You immediately get that “heart react” notification on your newly posted selfies, or even unintelligible statuses. Long story short, he’ll probably like whatever you post to say subtly that he is your no. 1 fan. This could be one of the signs that he secretly likes you and wants you to notice him.
Talking to you differently is a sign that he likes you
To determine whether he wants you, listen carefully to what he says to you and compare that to what he tells his other female friends. In case he seems to pay more attention to you, is flirtier or laughs more, it is an accurate sign that he likes you more than a friend.
Therefore, watch whether he treats you more warmly than his friend as this is a sign that he treats you more than a friend. If he is introducing you to his friend, you need to be keen to hear how he does that. In case he has some feelings for you, he will not introduce you as a friend.
This is because he can already feel in his head that you are more than a friend and he might find it odd referring you as a friend. If he behaves differently when around you, , it is because he considers you more than a friend.
He will make sure to spend some quality time with you alone
What is something more obvious than everything else to tell if a guy likes you more than a friend?
A man will never (or almost) go out with you alone if he is not interested in you. Rather, he would actually avoid it as much as possible so as not to make an issue among his friends. So, if a guy initiates an invitation to go out with you alone, it is a sure sign that you are more than a friend to him. You should also notice his body language. If he fidgets a lot while asking you out, or maybe sweats a little, it could mean nervousness. A guy would never feel nervous about asking a person out they don’t like more than a friend.
He likes you more than a friend if he’s a gentleman around you
Males are usually casual around their friends, even female ones. Being funny, dorky and crazy at times are men’s common personality.
But if he respects you a lot by doing things such as not letting you out before he opens the door of his car for you, helping you carry your bags, paying the bill most of the time when you’re on a date with him, making sure you arrived safely at home, or simply just talking to you with so much respect, it’s a sure sign that he likes you more than a friend.
He wants to show you that he can take care of you and that gentlemen still exist!
Remembering your details
When a guy is not into a woman, he will barely remember her name. However, when you see that he can remember even the finer details, this is a sign that not only does he listens to you, but he is also interested in you. Men will rarely remember your details as a sign of being polite, as many of them don’t even care. So, if he seems to remember you birthday, it is a sign that he cares about you.
If he seems to remember the things you love, it is an accurate indication that he values you. Have you changed something about your look whether great or small and the man seems to notice? If he notices your new hairstyle or the fact that you changed your cologne, it is a clear indication that he considers you to be more than a friend.
He is showing signs of willingness to give up his bad habits
Almost all men have their own bad habits, whether it be smoking, drinking alcohol, late night partying, etc. and most of the time, these are the habits that are not easy to get rid of.
Guys won’t easily give up on something they love doing just because someone tells them to.
But, if a guy secretly likes you more than a friend, you’ll be surprised that he is instantly willing on the first time you ask, sometimes even when you don’t ask him at all. Men will always present themselves as clean as much as possible to the the person they like, and to be able to do this, they must give up on their bad habits.
He asks you your plans for future
Sure, there was once a time when we shared our plans for the future to our friends, but we haven’t actually told them in elaborate detail, have we? When a guy is seriously interested about your plans for the future, especially about married life and wants to know every detail of it, it could be a major hint of his desire to be part of it; he wants to be involved. These could include questions like, “How old do you want to get married?” “How many children do you want to have?” “What kind of wedding do you prefer?” The list goes on.
He opens up about his dreams for the future
Yes, as I’ve said, if he is curious about your plans for the future, it is one of the signs he likes you. But even more so if he is the one who opens up or shares his own goals and dreams.
Men will not always talk about their dreams for the future to just anyone. They don’t all have that “chit-chat” personality like women do. To them, it may probably sound boring and corny.
But when he does, it’s because you’re important to him, and yes, he could also be hinting that he wants to reach this goals and dreams with you.
Strongest of all signs, your gut feeling
Sometimes, you have to trust your own instincts. If your woman’s intuition can sense that a guy is interested in you, or if he likes you more than a friend, chances are you are absolutely right.
You know, women just don’t sense things without seeing any sign. There has to be reason for this. So, if you have that gut feeling that he likes you more than a friend before even reading these signs, you are probably correct.
Originally published at https://www.relationshiptips.us on October 17, 2020.
