Had a hard breakup? Still, confused why the man whom you loved so much left you suddenly for no reason? Well, that’s the story of every failed relationship. There always comes a point in your relationship when your need for seriousness along with your edgy and keen behavior scares your man away. It starts gently, at first you feel he is just busy but sooner or later you realize that he is avoiding you and for some reason drawing himself out of the otherwise successful relationship. This is the time when most women lose it and become more needy and angry because of the hurt. Ultimately when you do track him down, you realize that he is no longer interested in you and wants to break up with you. This leaves you more hurt and heartbroken than ever.
The basic answer to the question “Why Men Pull Away in Relationships” can be fairly described by the phrase “Men are from Mars and Women are from Venus”. This statement is indeed true, men and women are total opposites, and when it comes to relationships men have a different way of dealing with emotions and handling situations as compared to women. Sometimes in order to have a successful relationship you have to think from the man’s point of view.
From the Stone Age, men have been believed to be isolated solution finders, men don’t really want to share whatever hardships and problems they are going through with anyone. It is a way of safeguarding their machismo or the so-called “masculinity”. So if you feel that your man is withdrawn for some reason and he is spending too much time alone then don’t force yourself on him. He might be struggling with something and wants to cope with the situation alone. If you will get all needy and edgy at this point in his life when he already has so many difficulties to face then he will obviously feel his connection breaking with you. This needy behavior will irritate and would force him to leave you forever. If he has true feelings for you he will definitely share whatever is on his mind when he feels like it. You as a woman have to give him that time and space so that he shares it willingly without you forcing him to.
One of the most important things is if you have a fight with your man and he leaves you, don’t chase him. Chasing really irritates men. If you go down this path you can be sure about one thing that there is no way he would ever come back to you or love you again. Let him be for some time and then if he really loves you then he will come back to you no matter how serious a fight you have had. Being the cool woman in the relationship will definitely help you in having a successful relationship.
Another important thing to keep in mind is never a distraction or disturbance for your man when he is busy with his work. At first, he might compromise his work for you but there would eventually come a time when he will choose his work over you. So don’t feel disgruntled if he is spending less time with you because of his work, if you give him space he will definitely come back to you. Giving a man his space is the success mantra for keeping your man from running away. Whether you believe it or not; there are very few women in this world who don’t try to dominate their man and always give him his space. If you are that woman then there is no way a man will ever leave you.
Never neglect a man’s effort. Most women generally forget the good things that their man did for them and always keep on complaining about the things that he was not able to do. A man likes to be admired. If he does something special for you be happy about it and make him feel special too. Try and be cheerful and happy, your personality will also decide whether the man wants to stay with you in long term or not. If you give the man his freedom to come and go as he pleases then he would definitely fall for you in long term.
Lastly understanding the man and “HIS” needs will also earn you extra points in a relationship. If you understand what a man wants in a relationship and you are able to deliver exactly what he wants then that man will be the happiest man in the world and he will do everything in his power to love you, be with you, and keep you happy forever.
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